To remove your age from your profile, go to your message board profile then click Edit my Profile. In General Account Settings, select “- -“ for month, day, and year.
You can turn on the approval process by going to your forum profile then clicking “Edit my Profile”. From there, select “Allow me to approve members before they’re added as a friend”.
Members can edit or delete their own posts by hovering near the bottom of their post — Edit and Delete options will then appear.